How To Find True Love. Five Warnings & Five Action Steps To Follow

INTRODUCTION
True love means different things to different people but for most people, it means finding someone who truly loves them and also makes them a priority in their life. When looking for your true love, it is important to clearly decide what true love means to you and what your expectations are from your true love.
Most people get it all mixed up in the course of their relationship with their partner because they begin to compare other people’s relationships with theirs or the kind of relationship they had with their ex. Two people or relationships can never be same; their ways of communicating, expressing love, e.t.c are always different.
Sometimes, those who do not seem to find true love are the reason for their frustration without knowing yet choose to blame others. So let us look at some reasons why some people find it difficult to find their true love:
(1) Low Self-Esteem:
For people with this, even if they find someone who truly likes them, they usually are not able to keep a relationship with them because of their low self-esteem. Ask yourself this question; if you don’t believe in yourself, why should he/she believe in you?
(2) Being too negative:
Some people just talk too much and are too negative. They talk too much about their pains, hurtful experiences, and weaknesses and so on. The truth is;  some people don’t really care about your hurtful experiences and negatives. In fact, some actually think that you deserve it.
(3) Lack of Confidence:
Confidence is a very important aspect of dating. You need confidence to walk up to her, ask for dates, apologize to him and so on. You may find it hard in finding your true love when you lack confidence.
(4) No Self Control:
Another reason why people usually find it hard to find their true love is because they have no self control over their emotions and themselves. This is why most people easily fall into the traps of bad guys and bad girls.
(5) Lack Of Knowledge:
Most of us have always held on to half truths or wrong ideas about dating and relationships like baring out your soul and giving gifts in the beginning of a relationship and so on.
Make sure you check yourself and your qualities so that they don’t hinder you when finding your true love. So check out some of these ways of finding you true love;
(1) Prepare:
It starts with your mindset. Be the person whom your true love will fall in love with. Seek knowledge from the right people and sources. Go for seminars, read and learn from discussions online, take advice from someone who is experienced and mature.
(2) Be Patient:
Patience is vital in finding your true love. Don’t be in a hurry to rush into a relationship. Take your time but at the same time don’t accommodate fear or cynicism. If you know what you’re looking for, you will know when you find it. Just try to be the right person as mentioned in the point above.
(3) Have control over yourself:
Learn to control yourself and your emotions so that you don’t fall in to the hands of bad guys and bad girls in your quest to finding your true love. I’m sure you don’t want a time waster and a deceiver.
(4) Be confident and approachable:
Learn to build your confidence by meeting and talking to people. You can start by telling a good friend to introduce another friend that you would like to meet. Building your confidence is very important. Even if things do not seem to go your way, it should not be a reason for you to be arrogant and disrespectful. Always be polite and gentle.
5) Don’t be too picky:
True love takes time. You don’t have to fall in love at first sight for you to enjoy a relationship or marriage with someone. Try to give a chance to someone who has many or most of the important things you’re looking out for in your partner. Many times, love grows as you spend time with your partner. Also remember, the older you get, the less options you have. Apply wisdom in your choices.

CONCLUSION
Again, I will like to tell you or remind you that finding your true love is not difficult. Keeping your true love is the difficult part. Never stop learning.