How To Know When Your Relationship Is Over. 8 Ways To Know When Its Time To Take A Walk

INTRODUCTION:
It can be very painful to know that the love between you and your spouse has grown cold but before you break it off, here are a few ways to know that your relationship is going in the dustbin:
1) Your spouse begins to get irritated with everything you do and say and yells at you over the littlest things for no reason.
2) If you were a very intimate couple, he/she begins to shy away from all forms of intimacy and rebuffs your attempts to cuddle or make out.
3) They avoid going out with you or spending time with you like they used to. This could be because they find your company annoying and want to spend some time alone away from you.
4) They start making excuses when you try to fix a time and place for a casual date or an evening hang-out.
5) They stop doing little things for you. If they formerly used to support you financially or academically, they begin to complain about how much you’re costing them and lie that they are broke and can’t afford it anymore. The truth is that they can’t fathom why they should spend so much money and time on someone they don’t care about anymore.
6) They don’t call you on the phone or return your calls anymore. You remember those days when your partner would call you virtually every hour of the day? Yes, those days are gone. Suddenly it becomes a struggle for them to call you twice or even once every day. They begin to use work or other commitments as an excuse. The truth is that calling you is now a chore that they don’t look forward to anymore.
7) Their friends can’t talk to them anymore. You know that friend that you used to call anytime you have an argument with your partner? That friend that would immediately call them back to order? Well, when that friend doesn’t have a positive impact in your relationship and his/her words don’t have any effect on your spouse anymore, then it’s time to take a walk.
8) They draw away from your family and keep theirs away from you. You never thought you would see the day when your father and your boyfriend would spend an hour chatting in person or over the phone? Well, when they stop calling the members of your family that they used to be close to, then something negative is up. They most likely will badmouth you to their family too and discourage them from spending time with you any longer.
TIPS:
- Your partner could be going through a rough patch at the moment, so if they exhibit any of these traits, it doesn’t really mean that all hope is lost for your relationship. Try to sit them down and have an intimate heart to heart conversation before jumping to conclusions.
- It is very tempting to beg your partner for a second chance or keep bugging them but this will irritate them even further and make them draw away from you.
- Speak softly and avoid throwing blame. If you keep using harsh words and making your spouse feel guilty and angry, that may be the end of your relationship.
- Don’t beg someone who is no longer interested. Walk away with your head held high, the best is yet to come!